Wisdom of Thoth: Healthy relationships between people

Humans have many worries and anxiety about having relationships with other people. For many people, there is no truth or real joy in relationships. Everything is changing very quickly: people's emotions, expectations, behaviour patterns, their ability to receive and transmit. All these constant changes affect the path and purpose of the union between people. If you start to observe your relationship with others you will see that from the very beginning you were in a fantasy world. You are entering a relationship having no clarity about your true intention, you have no clarity about the other person's true intention and fantasy can create what is missing. When human beings follow fantasies they are going to experience emotional roller coasters, excitement and great disappointment all at once. In the beginning, fantasies will create the perfect relationship in somebody's mind, people are looking at the partners and see the perfection they fantasize about.  When the fantasy and its illusionary expectations start to fade, behaviour patterns, fear and limitations come to the surface and create a different landscape. This can shock human beings and their reaction is to go into the survival mode and the ego. This creates more layers of confusion and separation between people. Some of you may ask how can I experience a loving relationship with others and is this possible on Earth? Your starting point is to love yourself and know who you are. People who do not love or know themself they create relationships that are based on need. They need to be loved by others, they need their attention, their confirmation that they are lovable and often they demand this type of behaviour from their partner. Another behaviour pattern makes people give in order to be liked, do things for others in order to get their approval. This can also lead to a loveless and complicated relationship. Human beings can not create relationships with others if they do not have a relationship with themself. This connection can only be based on truth, a deep understanding of your greatness your unique qualities, your path and your purpose in this lifetime.